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Bullying is bullied or what is now called the English transliteration "Bully" (Bully) is a story that has occurred in Thai society for a long time. And still a chronic problem that still needs to be solved But parents can observe the symptoms of their baby. And help him in a timely manner
>> What is "Bully"? And how should you cope in society?
How to spot a child may be "bully" at school.
After returning from school, the physical condition is not in good condition, such as torn clothes. Sloppy, more dirty than usual, bags, books, books, school supplies There are signs of damage
Found bruises Or wounds of unknown cause
Afraid of going to school Clearly don't want to go to school
Academic results are ok despite doing well before.
Not speaking, not wanting or wanting to answer When asked about school matters
Started to keep not high with anyone I started not talking about any of my friends at school.
Insomnia, nightmares
What to do when your child is "bullied"?
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First, when you notice some of the behaviors mentioned above. Then begin to wonder if the baby may have already been hit by a bullie at school, should be able to find the right moment to talk tenderly, slowly inquiring about what happened at school, what do you want to share?
If at first the child does not seem to want to tell Because they may be threatened if they sue their parents or teachers Will be teased harder than before Do not expect a step to answer immediately Parents should keep calm and tell them that "There is something uncomfortable to tell you about. Always ready to be by your side and always there to help. "
If the child has not told you anything yet Should ask the teacher at the school How our children behave at school Is it cheerful? Have a close friend or not, intend to attend school activities or not? And most importantly, is there any risk of being hit by a Bully?
When the time comes when the child is unable to cope And we keep inquiring with great concern. One day a child may be willing to tell us about it. At that time, we wish you and your parents to be a good listener first. Don't rush to conclusions, hijack the child, speak, or judge what the child says or does to the teased friend is right or wrong. Listen to the story the children tell to the end.
Should not say something like "If he's teased, don't pay attention" and "Was it teased for doing him something first?" Because it may make the child think that his parents don't understand him. And if something happened, it would not be told to parents again.
For children to finish stories, gradually introducing solutions to children By advising children to notify adults such as teachers whenever there is something Including informing parents Without worrying about what friends threaten Or if the threatening issue is very big To secretly come and tell your parents at home
Children should not be advised to use force to fight back. Because most of the children who pretend are older Or is more powerful than our children already Otherwise, our child would have been able to fight him for a long time.
When parents know about To notify the teacher And the school By collecting evidence of information And tell all the facts that happened to the school And calmly awaiting the decision to help the school Let the school know that something bad has happened to our child. And we came to inform the school to find a way to manage So as not to repeat this incident again Schools should also have solutions to help parents feel the increased safety of their children.
Parents And teachers gradually introduce how to help the child in the beginning And whenever the child starts to protect himself He will begin to gain more confidence in himself. And will begin to have the courage to help himself
Remember to always act as a good advisor to your children. Concerned inquires Update stories that happened at school When the child is doing well, it is encouraging. Whenever you make a mistake or get bullied, comfort it. Let the children trust us to tell us both good and bad stories. To prevent further bullying at school
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